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A Few Summer Style Staples: Denim, Seersucker, Floral Print, and a Nice pair of Wing Tips ;)

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Anonymous said: I'm fat brown femme ugly and unloveable and a trans woman on top of all that. Your piece really deeply validates my experiences and I can't tell you how much it means to me. There were a couple of parts that didn't make the BGD piece, and I was wondering why. Quotes: "To ask someone to do the work it would take to love a body like mine feels like asking too much." and the part from "When I name myself as unloveable and cite my body as this source" to "I do not believe this to be a coincidence."

thank you so much for your feedback! it’s always bittersweet when i speak of pain and others resonate with it, but i think (hope) it’s comforting to know we are not alone.

my original essay was written for my tumblr and thus very personal. when i decided to submit it to BGD, i had to cut it down for length, since i am long fucking winded and it was about 400 words over the suggested limit. i cut those specific pieces out because they felt incredibly personal and vulnerable to submit to a site with the readership BGD has. ironically, they wanted more personal context for the piece to go on BGD, which is why i added more about my own history with sex and dating. in retrospect i feel those statements are important and address some critiques i have seen about the essay, but i am happy with the version that went to BGD.

thank you for your message! <3

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smoo told me to draw zutara week stuff so instead i drew some modern au gaang. sorry for my shitty handwriting.


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ah yes my favorite shade


ah yes my favorite shade

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On Being Fat, Brown, Femme, Ugly, and Unloveable -

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I can’t go out till my nails are dry (2013)


I can’t go out till my nails are dry (2013)

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by Rose-Aimee Belanger in bronze

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People who should use aave


Black people

People who shouldn’t use aave :

Everyone else who is NOT BLACK!

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In high school I had these close guy friends, we’d been friends for years, we’d shared dreams and struggles and all that. and we were all into Buffy and they all liked Xander. and they all ditched me really suddenly as soon as I got my first boyfriend. That’s when I noticed they only kept women around as long as they were either potentially available or could be understood as an honorary guy

and that’s all you need to know about Xander Harris

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Anonymous said: Do you mean you don't believe in romantic love at all? I def don't mean to be rude, but how do you navigate that with regard to dating? Or even with regard to seeing yourself as queer? Has it been complicated for you or do you just refrain from things like romance?

my queerness exists outside of who i fuck or date. asexuals and aromantic folks can be queer too. my queerness is also about how i move through the world, my politics and my community.

i think the answers to the rest of yr questions can be found here:

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labrujamorgan said: 19, 47,63

19. Found out who your true friends were

yes of course. i am constantly in awe and gratitude of the love and tenderness my friends show me <3 <3 <3

47. Do you have a crush on someone

sorry, i don’t understand the question. do you mean could i crush a man’s head with my thighs???/ why, yes, of course!

63. Waiting for

more energy on kim k: hollywood tbh

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