Seriously, I got over being a dick about grammar. Grammar is great and all, but it makes language boring and propagates an idea that those communicating outside of being ~grammatically correct~ to be lesser than or somehow unacceptable communicators.
Not to mention that those deciding what is ‘proper’ and ‘appropriate’ grammar are those who benefit most from the cisheterocapitalist patriarchy and humoring them by insisting everyone need abide by them is only perpetuating it~