Had a hook up this morning that was kind of weird in some ways but good in others. It’s making me think a lot about the fetishization aspect of bear/chaser dynamic and just chaser dynamic in general, and where the line is drawn between genuine attraction vs fetishization. Idk. I have a lot of thoughts. Maybe if I can process them completely and formulate them I’ll write them out eventually.

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  1. manicpixiedreambakla said: ooooh, gurl, i hella feel this. we should talk about it!
  2. deeplezstonerwitch said: whoa… feelin this!
  3. iconoclasticallyqueer said: I’ve thought a lot about this too, and I’m still not sure where I stand, or how to tell the difference between fetishisation and genuine attraction, at least until the dehumanisation becomes evident.
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