ATTENTION CASTRO:
Gay men are not hated because of how they fuck.
Gay men are hated because they are perceived to be effeminate; no matter how “macho” you are, the mainstream equates being gay with lowering oneself to the inferior status of a woman.
Your misogyny—your hatred of women, trans folks, and femme men—is oppressing your community and yourself.
HOMOPHOBIA=TRANSPHOBIA=SEXISM
(Source: maymay, via sanaa-tamir-is-leaving-deactiva)